recent posts regards Will upset me. I broke the rules knowingly due to the strength of the feelings resulting from the posts. I would not have debated that the post were accurate but still felt that they shouldn't have been posted. I see the memorial posts as belonging to the family of the deceased. Don't debate that people have a right to state how they feel, but others also have a equal right to form the opinion that they are assholes for not holding their tongue. I think a period of silence before negative post would be helpful as the grieving would not be so upset, but the inevitable result of that would be that the last posts in a memorials post would end up being negative and that wouldn't be good either. In the end I think people should be able to write what they want but should understand that what they write in these threads will have a greater impact on the how people see them then post in other threads.