DreamingNagual Posted July 13, 2006 (edited) Hello Friends I have decided to change My Name to "DreamingNagual" Forum members would of previously known me as "MOJORISIN" This has been set in course by another change in my life stemming from a sad bunch of events! Including a relationship breakup, Going from seeing my 12 month old son everyday down to about once a fortnight! And to top it off I lost most of my ethnobotanical collection in a house fire & then the rest was ripped out, burnt and poisoned from the backyard by my ex Girlfriend & her mates Now I am starting afresh with a Nice Big new Garden to fill with lovely plants My only problem is that I now have no seed or plant stocks left & no money to replace them! So I am sending out a plea If anyone has any surplus of seeds or cuttings they could spare to donate 4 a chance for me to begin a new garden I would be most appreciative & promise 2 share progress with photos of the new garden along the way! And of course all seed & produce grown will be shared & donations 2 the seedbank will be made I would eventually like 2 begin a tasmanian chapter when I am in the position 2 do so Once again any help will be appreciated thankyou! Edited July 13, 2006 by DreamingNagual Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hebrew Posted July 13, 2006 (edited) man that sucks pm me yoru addy and i will send some spare seed i dont have much atm but am sure i can gather something for you all the best that truly sucks about not seeing your son very often Edited July 13, 2006 by hebrew Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rev Posted July 13, 2006 man that sucks do yor best to keep current with your kids lives itll be hard but time flies and when they are adults theyll remmeber it i mean you know them as kids for only 18 years, but as adults you know your kids for an additional 30-40+ years after that from my own experience the step/parents who made the effort have my ongoing respect, those who abandoned me as being too hard - who are you? think long term perspective, it may dampen the pain I can help you out with some things as i have extras please post a 'had' list on the trade forums so we can assist filling in the blanks rev Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DreamingNagual Posted July 13, 2006 Rev, You just brought tears to my eyes with that post! My Son is Everything to me! When I am sad & miss him I just have to look @ a picture of him and I am instantly overcome with a sensation of Happiness and Wealth! I may not have a lot of money but I consider myself a rich Man with the love and joy I share with my son Thankyou! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rev Posted July 13, 2006 i know what you mean and perhaps poor people have more kids because of that who needs a million dollar boat when you have several million dollar smiles tugging on your leg wanting a pony ride on dads back its not easy but its well worth it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
incognito Posted July 13, 2006 For sure, im with rev, keep current with ur childs life, keep in touch, and make the most of the moments when ur with ur child, as a father myself i can only imagine how u must be feeling mate, but i do think things happen for a reason, and often for the better, i think as long as ur child knows that u love them ,that is as much as a child could ever want from a father. I am more than happy to help u out with some cacti cuttings if u want em, just pm me an address. Keep ur chin up mate. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
occidentalis Posted July 15, 2006 DN, definitely do as Rev says and post a had/wanted list We will all chip in to recreate your garden . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apothecary Posted July 15, 2006 post a had/wanted listWe will all chip in to recreate your garden . Right in time for Spring! :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
reshroomED Posted July 15, 2006 Can help with cactii cuttings. pm me ed Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aceishigh Posted July 20, 2006 Dreaming, my heart goes out to you. I am in a pretty similar circumstance with my son who is 1 1/2 years. I additionally had to go through the trauma of having to prevent his mother from abducting him overseas. Everything will work out, he wont forget you..especially when the times he spends with you will be the best in his life (right?)...i mean who is gunna give him his first skateboard; not to mention RC car. just take it easy. One of the hardest things for me was not being so malliciously tortured by my ex (who has seemingly no regard for my sons welfare), but the realisation that there is no justice system that will help (unless you're independently wealthy). The whole country betrays fathers. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CaptAmazing Posted July 21, 2006 There is definitely no replacement for a dad. When a son is involved. Can you imagine telling your mum about wet dreams? Not fun when your a teenager. I hope you don't hate your ex for doing what she did, or at least i hope you can forgive her. There are some pretty serious emotions in the air. All the best mate. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
