planthelper Posted March 31, 2006 just want to say, i haven't had any alco & pot since a year!! i think aya helped me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Anton Posted March 31, 2006 Congratulations! Just make sure you keep it up Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Francois le Danque Posted March 31, 2006 (edited) good work! don't be a slave to the man.....or......in this case....inanimate substances. but really, good on you. why not go celebrate with some other substances? Edited March 31, 2006 by frank Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
indigo264nm Posted March 31, 2006 You're inspiration makes me think that it may be possible... just now I got a bit of stuff to kick. Maybe it's time I gave aya a shot. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
transDiMenTional Posted March 31, 2006 congrats PH! Aya helped me also to quit weed, after 10 yrs of smoking! Mother is def a catalyst for change. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dqd Posted March 31, 2006 Well done mate from one ex-alco to another . And unlike marriage it just gets easier as the years go by . Seriously, well done ph Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
genki Posted April 3, 2006 nice one! hope things go that well in the future for you Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
planthelper Posted April 3, 2006 i wished i could quitting feeling sad at times aswell... everytime a relationship ends or even only stalls, or circumstances make me feel abondend, i get sad. oh, i envy people who have a family, i just don't want to be alone. i remeber getting sad as a child aswell with a family around me, but if there are people around you than there is always something happening and the sadness lasts only a short while and doesn't go deep. when i got sad as a child, i always thought of things which could cheer me up, mostly that meant going up the attic, opening old games, toys and boxes, or i did build something. now i still combat sadness the same way, i home renovate, care for my garden and plants, call or visit friends and go for walks. when i get those feelings of abondoment, i say to myselfe everytime, "all will be fine, things will work out for you", and gee do i say this often. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Evil Genius Posted April 3, 2006 (edited) And so it will. Congratulations for letting such strong influenting factors behind. Pot was a major problem for so many people i knew because they have allready been calm people before. Everyone has favours and risks for developing addictions. Last time i was drunk i rushed in a fight again. So i cut of the Alcohol completely. I have the feeling that i have to keep away from alc for keeping my inner balance. The Same with Tobacco. It would probably be possible from a toxicologocal point of view but i can´t life that way. As you wrote, sometimes it helps a lot if you can distract yourself from your old habits. Just try to find new ones that are healthy for you. As i liked to smoke very much, i mostly make me a inhalation in the morning with hot water vapours for cleaning my lungs. Its almost like smoking, i´m high of life. I started cooking, reading labels, winemaking,i make my own cheese. Legal drugs and herbals are a alternative too. Just make sure you´ll allways keep contact to your own personal rites that are able to make you happy and satisfied! I started reading things that normally didn´t interested me much. I just do all these things for me. Imagine your time is very limited. I always planned to do all these things when i´m old , lol. Cutting of the weed helps to witness your life when you have the option to handle your own actions. Besides i discovered there are so many girls out there. I just can´t find enough new notes i can learn and play on the piano for impressing and hunting down these little rabbits. As you know that a family is very important for you, maybe you feel like you want to build yourself one. I´m sure that it will work out for you if you don´t try to fix or to force something. bye Edited April 3, 2006 by Evil Genius Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apothecary Posted April 3, 2006 Well done my friend Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
