Hugh Bliss Posted November 19, 2007 I've been doing some phone consultations, making my new program, "TheGirlfriend Whisperer". The main problem I'm seeing with everyone is they listen to my stuff, read it, etc. and all they ever do is pick out the LINES that I share, without using the fundamentals first. This shows me that they wish to CONTROL a woman, instead of LEADING her. Literally NOBODY I've talked to thus far even has their own mission statement... but they want their girlfriends to follow them?? FOLLOW WHAT? It's the blind leading the blind. It's extremely important to have a mission statement, and it's so EASY to make one. If you read the book "The 7 habits", chapter 2 talks about this in exquisite detail. I've had mine since age 16, and I've been modifying/updating it ever since. Here it is, to give you an example: IDEAGASMS MISSION STATEMENT * To Trail-blaze The 'Interdependent Circle' Relationship Paradigm * To Make Our Unique Contribution To An Ever-Evolving Mass Consciousness * To Achieve Sexual And Spiritual Harmony * To Be Examples Of Compassion And Unconditional Love * To Cultivate Tender Intimacy And Non-Judgment * To Promote True Honor And Integrity * To Assist Those Who Are Ready to Open The Seven Chakras * To Liberate Ourselves And Others Into Full Self-Acceptance And Personal Freedom It's on my website, it's on my wall, it's in my Heart, and the women in my life have to understand, they have to FEEL IT IN THEIR HEARTS ALSO. Otherwise they won't qualify, I know they will be a huge pain-in-the-ass because we don't even have the same life direction, path. We can't just expect a woman to follow our lead OUT OF THE BLUE. A woman will only follow the lead of a man who follows his own Heart's desires. THEN she's more than happy to follow our lead because our lead is WORTHWHILE. It's not about "what's in it for me?" and "what's in it for you?" at this level of the game. It's about living for a cause that is greater than yourself, greater than her, and greater than your "relationship". I often have up to two or three bisexual girlfriends, and they follow my lead. They want to be led because they trust me, they can feel my passionate LIFE PURPOSE. (I don't say this to impress you, I say this because I wish to impress UPON YOU just how awesome your love life can be when you get the fundamentals handled.) > To write your own Mission Statement, it's so simple, just imagine that you are watching your own funeral... and your friends, family and co-workers are taking turns talking about the kind of person you were. What do you want them to say about the kind of person you were emotionally, socially, spiritually? What kind of FRIEND were you? What did you most try to offer our world? What kind of LOVER were you? What kind of Father? Student? Teacher? Healer? Businessman? Manager? Employee? Soccer Player? What would you like them to say about you? Just write it down, and keep writing all night long until your fingers are sore... Steve Pavlina suggests that when you write down your unique life purpose, it'll make you CRY. And that's how you know it's your REAL PURPOSE, your truest Heart's Desires. No amount of "game" will allow us passage into the world of smooth, sexually polarized relationships, including Circles with scores of bisexual women. Only Heart. Many Blessings and Light, Stephane http://www.ideagasms.net/newsletter/link.p...mp;N=10&L=3 ^^To sign up for this newsletter PS - The Girlfriend Training Program: http://www.ideagasms.net/newsletter/link.p...mp;N=10&L=2 PPS - About my upcoming program, "The Girlfriend Whisperer", assuming you already have the GTP and have your own Mission Statement, if you are currently in a relationship and would like to participate, login to our private customer forums and read this thread for details: http://www.ideagasms.net/newsletter/link.p...mp;N=10&L=4 PPPS - The "Circle Q&A" Montreal Seminar is still on, I'll be in touch with you guys... just as soon as I get in touch with you guys ^_^ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phloom Posted November 21, 2007 thats really cool man thankyou Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
