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sab is bit of a sausage fest , what is the ratio of men to women on this site

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Isn't it just.

Since joining in 2010 i have only traded with two chicks compared to atleast 30 guys..

I'd estimate its minimum 15 males to 1 female.

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It is much, much less of a sausage fest than it was a few years ago! The ratio used to be basically one girl to the whole forum!

Stick around girls, and bring your friends!

It also could be that certain kinds of sites or ethnobotany in general attract more males than females.

Maybe every time a new woman checks out the site she sees 'I hate women' on the front page and thinks 'fuck these cunts' :P

but isn't it actually one of the Rules of the Internet that there are no girls on the internet? What are you gals even doing online at all, you are going to break the internet!

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I like how your messages to the female race occur in this thread of all the threads on SAB lol.

I think its more ethnobotany thats male dominated than the internet in general. Heaps of chicks spend all day on facebook.

My female friends think i am weird for collecting ethnos. They give me the most shocked looks when i mention what i paid for certain plants, yet they see it as perfectly normal to pay $80 for a bottle of foundation.

They are of course interested in partaking in the experiences made available by these plants, but growing them seems to be too much effort.. Doesnt stop me giving them cacti tho lol.

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Maybe every time a new woman checks out the site she sees 'I hate women' on the front page and thinks 'fuck these cunts' :P

 

Or it could be just another example of patriarchal oppression subjugating the female demographic. Think about it. We have a patriarch who has handpicked a band of male mods. There would be more women on here, but we've tricked them into spending their time making sandwiches for the male members. It has nothing to do with the different choices made by individuals.

Oh dear. I blame you for bringing up that thread, chilli :P I will shut up now. :blush:

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I like how your messages to the female race occur in this thread of all the threads on SAB lol.

 

Haha!

and also: Aha! but I am only here because you bumped the thread and I was intrigued to see what you said. :):P

I think its more ethnobotany thats male dominated than the internet in general. Heaps of chicks spend all day on facebook.

 

It depends, because while sites like facebook and twitter are roughly even for m/f participation, sites like reddit and digg attract mainly males. As far as subject matter attracting one sex over the other, I think it is true that there are more males involved in ethnobotany, as well as technology, philosophy, atheism and theology. Seeing as these subjects constitute the majority of the sort of forums I have frequented over the years it could account for why there seem to me to be less women on internet forums generally?

I wonder what kind of sites have a comparable overrepresentation of females... I don't dare to take a guess... Balzac? :)

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I think its more ethnobotany thats male dominated than the internet in general. Heaps of chicks spend all day on facebook.

 

It's possibly a component, but the ratio seems very different at actual events.

I wonder what kind of sites have a comparable overrepresentation of females... I don't dare to take a guess... Balzac? :)

 

I dunno. I've never done a head-count. Dare I say knitting forums?

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my sausage is sore~! just got off facewhore sorry facebook arrr :wub:

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Women are on lifestyle forums, or baby (pre/post), health or cwute widdle puppy ones. They haven't got time for forums where there are cockfights every second thread or people generally dribble shit with the occasional gem.

Blokes put up with the shit to find that gem... Treasure hunters. That's why Indy was a bloke...

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i think ethno chicks are rare a lot more men seem to enjoy the subject than women , would be good to get more women on sab.

maybe there should be a single's thread :wub:

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you guys need to go outdoors more ^.

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you guys need to go outdoors more ^.

 

i am outside now ummmm can i go in now my wifes calling lol!
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you guys need to go outdoors more ^.

 

i am outside now ummmm can i go in now my wifes calling lol!

 

:lol:

me too..

sos, they have this amazing wireless technology now that allows you to use computers and phones outside... it's a bit like the aether except real (drifter :P)

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Love / lust

human / animal

ideal / real

love - connection

lust - attraction

love is never wrong, but lust without love is objectification of another human being.

You already know in your heart, the answer.

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I never think of other people when I’m making love with my partner, I can only think of him, its because i truly dont feel like thinking of anyone else also out of respect for him and because if he did that i probably would be very hurt and have a massive, very bitchy tantrum, im very sensitive about this things and i doubt it would ever be the same between us in bed again,

but I do think of my friend's boyfriends, and my own male friends/ acquaintances when I masturbate, why not? It is not harmful and no one is going to know, plus it adds a lot of kinkiness, the "forbidden" factor :lol:

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:) Edited by bogfrog

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Yeah bogfrog you are right.

I hadn’t thought about it in this light, it is true that when you have a partner they have a connection with your mind that neither part understands, and yeah I guess we kind of have experienced this in a way already, last thing I want to do is hurt him. And I know he feels it because I have felt it too before, it’s just like a feeling, and not matter how much you or he denies it, you just feel you are right.

In my case though is a very superficial thing, I don’t actually feel lust for them in most cases i don’t even feel very attracted to them, and I would never do anything with them in real life, it’s more of a fun thing

Thanks for the advice

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Sorry its not my place to even say anything, it has just been an issue that has been causing some major head-fucks(:P) in my relationship over the past while.

Attraction is a very strange force huh, then again so is the female brain.

All the best Kuychi :)

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After being with the same person for 20 years, you might want to throw in the odd fantasy in here and there.

There is a saying..'It doesn't matter where you get your appetite from, as long as you come home for dinner' ... I am not real fond of the saying, but it just means 'stay faithful' , which is the important bit.

:)

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I let my mind decide what it wants at the time - my partner is the same - we're have an extremely communicative relationship so there's no issues about where the appetite comes from, but we both come home for dinner. (well at least I do, I guess I can never be certain that she does, but I would hope so since that's our mutually agreed standpoint) If it's my neighbours friends girfriends partners toy girl I'm thinking about, then so be it. I believe that if you excercise your brain and experiement in your mind, you're less likely to do something in 'reality' that could hurt someone or be inappropriate. I guess it depends on your partner too though, some people are more conservative than others and that needs to be considered when you're discussing your fantasies etc... Sometimes sex is really deep and meaningful between us, but mostly it's playtime, fun, and free without any hangups.

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Thank's for all the replies folks!

Keep the opinions coming!

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Thank's for all the replies folks!

Keep the opinions coming!

what about more of your opions :drool2: as your a chick and lets face it, its getting to much of a sausage thread

would love more girls opinions

well i used to watch porn sometimes when im lucky with a past lover and we will be dogy styling but i would get

a idea from the porn a pick her up and smash her up against the wall in a heat of passion(censored part) but

she would be like" hey i was watching that". she loved the story line and she loved it dogy she would

get really into the movie and must have well i dont know im a guy and when your doing ALL the work

in this scenario it gets tiring but everyone has there fantasies i guess so it can be a two way street i guess

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it's probly cos you're ugly ^

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