Sonny Jim
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Hi Carl For energy my suggestion is Siberian Ginseng (Eleutherococcus senticosus). Get the Mediherb brand liquid extract from a naturopath/herbalist dispensary in a health food store.
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thanks, will do
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I really like it. I am a fan of this for sure! Have you got anything else you can show us?
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7Vibcq_rrw&feature=player_detailpage
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homeboyz got mad flow! check the "smooth" version. I got blazed lol
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WTF! My local pharmacy sells the tablets. What devastating effect on the community? This makes me so angry, that poor man with the 40kg.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pEmXX4jDcI&feature=player_detailpage
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First commercial jetpack is 'just months away'
Sonny Jim replied to synchromesh's topic in News & Notices
fark! That would be scary as hell. I won't one! -
"Sonny Jim, those 'explanations' you gave are very interesting . Any more of that would be appreciated..." It is kind of just a gut feeling that I have about the whole tall poppy syndrome thing. I was hoping one another Australian member might have thought about it a bit more and can put it to words.
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"Sonny Jim, those 'explanations' you gave are very interesting . Any more of that would be appreciated..." It is kind of just a gut feeling that I have about the whole tall poppy syndrome thing. I was hoping one another Australian member might have thought about it a bit more and can put it to words.
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Are you sure about that kadakuda? Haven't you heard of people being mugged or bullied? Innocent people are assaulted all the time. I wish I lived where you live, if it is a place where you can actually forget that people can be attacked and beaten up or even killed by thugs for minding their own business. Seriously, what part of the country do you live in? I want to move there lol.
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" This is awful. This being a 'syndrome', a social phenomenon is unsettling. " It sure is unsettling mutant. What rahli just posted is spot on. I'm sure it happens in other cultures but Australians have a phrase for it so maybe there is something about Australians that makes this urge(?) more prominent. I know we often describe our selves as having an inferiority complex, maybe that has something to do with it. To me it is more a of a gut feeling. When some one gets singled out by the media for doing something that is commendable, I get this double edge sword type feeling that tells me the person that was single out will cop some shit for there trouble. I really don't know why but I hope others here can put this word.
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For me, the sad thing is that I am only slightly surprised this has happened.
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Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
As far as I can tell some of the arguments put here seem to come from people who are still children them selves. I don't mean that as an insult (synchro, I am talking to you lol), I mean it literally i.e maybe these posters are in the 15 to early twenties age group. I can understand how how people who still identify as young people (is that less offensive?) might not have a well developed sense of how these hypothetical situations could harm a young person. Also, they might not fully appreciate how different children are to adults and might not understand the innate desire to protect children that adults (especially parents) feel acutely. I think the actual reasons why we as a society need to protect children from pedophilia and sexualisation have been put really well by hutch and rahli so far. I agree with the prevention is better than cure approach to pedophilia that some members have posted about but I think anyone interested in helping pedophiles in this way must acknowledge and understand the reason for why parents need to protect their children from adults who don't understand how vulnerable children actually are. I hope we can go even further into this discussion and build a better understanding of this huge issue, which has become more than a discussion about pedophilia. I think we are talking about the difference between adults and children and the societal rules (good and bad)that come from those differences. -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
edit: reply to torsten For sure, I like what you have written so far and I have enjoyed the discussion (argument, to be fair) so far. I would agree that people have been showing their true feelings about paedophilia. I think it is hard to have a conversation about the topic without it breaking out into an argument that people take personally. For me, the argument was about a perceived lack of compassion for the victims of child sexual abuse. When people tried to describe paedophilia as being comparable to anything that I would consider truly sexual urges, comparing it to homosexuality etc. I felt like people were trying to make light of the dark side of paedophilia when they said that. I think that a thorough understanding of the devastating reality of pedophilia is importrant in a discussion that tries to further our understanding understanding of it. I agree that standing in the way of better discription of pedophilia doesn’t help anyone. -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
"You sound like a wounded animal man. Regardless, I'm calling for you to get a warn point. Because not only have you lied about many of the things I've said here (making you libelous), but you've also directly insulted me, as well as rallied other members' emotions." You have directly insulted me multiple times in this thread. There is nothing wrong with being a child. I assume you are quite young and don't understand the full weight of the damage these sexual thoughts of children end up having on everyone. They damage everyone, the pedophile, the parents, the children and the community. I suppose I could have used the word immature but you naturally would have been offended by this. I could have resorted to name calling (like you and others have done to me) but that wouldn't have conveyed the thoughts that I actually believe. -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
Synchro wrote this "Since when are 9 year olds pubescent? You just defeated your own argument..." That's the thing synchro, this is not just and "intellectual" debate to most people. It is not an argument between "know it alls" to sharpen their debating skills and "know it alls" should know better than to use such a serious issue just to to sharpen their debating skills. This is about people who hurt children or people who would think about hurting children. It is a real issue that effects real children and real parents and real pedophiles are doing real time and really being bashed and murdered in a real prison. I don't think you understand the gravity the problems pedophilia causes people. That is ok, you are probably young and don't have children and have never been effected by this kind of thing. A lot of the comments you have made suggest you are still a child your self, so I don't expect you to understand why people are getting angry with you because you seem to be making light of pedophilia. Why else would you say that the main reason people hate pedophilia is because they don't understand it and it is a media beat up to take people minds away from war. -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
"No, you just implied it... " I did not imply that. The story was about the 13 year old who was taken advantage of by an older person. I re read my post and that is very clear. What's wrong with you? "You enjoy staying on the first step don't ya? Rude bastard..." I don't really understand what you mean by the first step. Thanks for making your position clear but what has two 15 year olds having sex with each other got to do with pedophilia? Nobody knows what causes pedophilia, and this is one of the main reasons why people despise it That might be part of it but not the main reason. If you don't know the main reason why people hate pedophilia then there is probably nothing anyone can post here that would that would make you understand. -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
"One case, eh? I know of one case as well. Doesn't change much in the broader scope of things though..." Luring children into cars on the way home from school does happen, I didn't say it was the prevalent form. That was one case. I also know that most sex offender know there victims, I have heard it on the radio and on T.V. "I've already read it and I mostly agree with it. The main part I don't agree with is that every person who has sex at 13 will become a pedophile..." I didn't say that every person who has sex at 13 will become a pedophile. I didn't say anything like that at all. I was saying that a child who is used for sex by someone much older than them might become a pedophile. I explained the reason for why I think people who are pedophiles often say they were sexually abused as a child, it has a lot to do with trust. "Pfft, I don't need to answer you. I'm one of the few people here who actually cares about finding a solution to this problem... " Of course you don't need to answer me. I would like you to, so I asked. I really can't tell if you think it is ok or not because I have worked with a couple of young men in their early twenties who bragged about having sex with girls in their mid teens. I think these young men were very wrong to do what they did to those girls. Do you mean that I don't care about finding a solution to the problem. If you do mean that about me you are wrong about me. You didn't even read my post#103 properly but you replied to it twice. How can you have an opinion about what I think about the issue if you aren't even reading my posts. -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
"Yes, I am actually sorry about that. Reading through again, I see that I have confused a few of your posts with dworx's, and have been viewing you in a light that you don't deserve. (particularly his castration comment, which I accidentally read as yours)" Thank you sheather "I do not disagree that seeing a child in a sexual way is wrong. I am defending paedophiles in that they can be good people, and that having thought of wrong, well, everyone has thought dark thoughts before." I would agree that it is possible for people to over come their dark thoughts. As far as I know the only kind of help pedophiles have with this is in prison. Do you know of any kind of therapist who would be brave enough to do that kind of work with pedophiles who have not offended? Have there been any cases of pedophiles who have not yet offended but been brave enough to try to get help? That would be really interesting to hear about. -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
edit: this is a reply to sheather Thanks for answering my question Please don't be rude to me. "Paedophiles have done nothing to harm society, unless they have crossed into the realms of child molestation or pornography" That is obvious, but I think having sexual thoughts about children is a bad thing. You said that people who have these urges and don't act on them are good people. I think that is wrong. Unless these good pedophiles are terribly conflicted about their urges and hate themselves for it. I think they are bad people, well more like very stupid people because they don't realise that their urges are all about hurting children and nothing more. Their is no way of seeing a child in a sexual way that is not wrong. That is what I think. Would you agree with that? -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
"Perhaps my friends are more linguistic than most, but every one of them hold a clear distinction between paedophilia and child molestation, and to see that completely ignored brushed me the wrong way." It was not completely ignored, I am sure most people understand the distinction. You said I did not get it in one of your posts but my first post in this thread addressed it in the first paragraph. The whole first paragraph was about the distinction. Please read it. -
Police arrest 184 in worldwide pedophile ring: Europol
Sonny Jim replied to hutch's topic in News & Notices
"When did Sheather say this? One thing you've gotta realise, okay, is that the media stereotype of pedophiles is largely bullshit. For example, I'm pretty sure that most pedophiles don't lurk outside of primary schools with a bag of candy!" I can help but think you really are defending pedophilia and that you don't understand why we have laws to protect children from them. It doesn't matter how pedophiles find there victims, they find them. In all kinds of different ways. Tricking kids into cars is just one of them and it does happen. I remember it happening in a suburb I used to live in and we were very scared for our children until they found the guy. How can you say the pedophilia is a media beat up? I know the media plays on people fears for their own gain but common. You seem to be so wound up in arguing for the sake of arguing that you are defending pedophiles. Please tell us that you understand that an adult having sex with a child is wrong. If you don't think it is wrong them just come straight out and say it. I would like it if you read my post (103) and told me what you think about my description of how children can be hurt by this. Do you think I am wrong? Do you know how to describe a similar situation and make us understand that it is indeed ok?